Cody Delistraty

New York City

Cody Delistraty is a speechwriter and journalist whose work has appeared in The New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, and The New Yorker, among others. He is the author of The Grief Cure: Looking for the End of Loss (Harper, 2024). He lives in New York City.

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Written by Cody Delistraty

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Sex and sexuality

Sex and death

Our culture works hard to keep sex and death separate but recharging the libido might provide the release that grief needs

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Mood and emotion

The happiness ruse

How did feeling good become a matter of relentless, competitive work; a never-to-be-attained goal which makes us miserable?

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Meaning and the good life

On coincidence

Lightning can strike twice and people do call just when you’re thinking of them – but are such coincidences meaningful?

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Stories and literature

The coming-of-age con

How can you go about finding ‘who you really are’ if the whole idea of the one true self is a big fabrication?

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History

Drugs du jour

LSD in the ’60s; ecstasy in the ’80s; ‘smart’ drugs today: how we get high reflects the desires and fears of our times

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Mood and emotion

Only the lonely

Loneliness is hell: debilitating yet formative. Can we avoid the pains of loneliness yet enjoy the pleasures of solitude?

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Pleasure and pain

When it’s good to be bad

The relentless pursuit of success is valorised in our culture, but taking the long way around is often the best

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