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John Dunne is a professor of contemplative humanities at the University of Wisconsin-Madison.

Written by John Dunne

Essay/
Love & Friendship
Buddhists in love

Lovers crave intensity, Buddhists say craving causes suffering. Is it possible to be deeply in love yet truly detached?

Lisa Feldman Barrett & John Dunne