A biological trick? A timeless pursuit? A source of great anguish? The highest possible happiness? Romantic love is perhaps all of these things and more – which is, perhaps, why philosophers have such a seemingly endless affinity for mulling over the subject. This short TED-Ed video scripted by Skye Cleary, a philosophy lecturer at Columbia University and Barnard College in New York and a frequent Aeon contributor, traverses the centuries to investigate how famed philosophers have envisioned romantic love. So is it a way of satisfying Earthly human desires that interrupt the path to enlightenment, as Buddha believed? A devious way for nature to trick us into procreating, as suggested by Arthur Schopenhauer? Or a way to infuse our lives with meaning, as Simone de Beauvoir wrote? The answer might just depend on your current relationship status.
For proof that love is timeless, consider how long philosophers have debated it

videoThinkers and theories
‘Defend love as a real, risky adventure’ – philosopher Alain Badiou on modern romance
15 minutes

videoHistory of ideas
Why Socrates believed that sexual desire is the first step towards righteousness
2 minutes

videoLove and friendship
Why Sartre believed that the person in love could never be free
2 minutes

videoHistory of ideas
A lighthearted ancient Greek myth explains why humans are doomed to yearn for partners
2 minutes

videoHistory of ideas
What can the Romantics teach us about confronting modern problems?
20 minutes

videoEthics
For Iris Murdoch, selfishness is a fault that can be solved by reframing the world
6 minutes

videoPleasure and pain
A happy life is built on pleasures such as sex and food, but also company and variety
7 minutes

videoLove and friendship
What people’s hand gestures reveal when they’re asked about love
9 minutes

videoMood and emotion
Reason might be our puppet master but only after emotions tug on the strings
3 minutes