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Sepia photograph of the poet with long curly hair and a full beard and moustache. He wears a white shirt and dark suit, and has a thoughtful expression.
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Stories and literature

To capture grief in poetry is to describe the ineffable. Here’s why Tennyson did it best

8 minutes

Painting of five women working in a field at sunset. Four are bent over tending to the soil, and one stands to the left looking at the sky with a bag on the ground beside her. The sky is a gradient of blue and orange with a visible crescent moon.
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Metaphysics

The enchanted vision

Love is much more than a mere emotion or moral ideal. It imbues the world itself and we should learn to move with its power

Mark Vernon

Close-up of a person lighting a cigarette with a lighter in a dim, smoky environment.
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Love and friendship

Love looks a bit different for a chain-smoking couple in a small apartment

11 minutes

Black and white illustration of a man with short curly hair and a beard, wearing a toga-like garment with detailed textures and folds.
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The ancient world

An ancient Roman’s hilarious (and perhaps relatable) response to a social snub

2 minutes

Elderly man in a cap and jacket sits on concrete steps outdoors holding a cup, with greenery and trees in the background.
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Love and friendship

After his son’s terrorist attack, Azdyne seeks healing – and his granddaughter

25 minutes

A colourful close-up of a circular, textured artwork featuring butterflies, birds, and flowers against a blue background.
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Design and fashion

The ornate, the aromatic, the cruel – Valentine’s cards before the age of Hallmark

16 minutes

Line drawing of a woman with short hair and a man with curly hair looking at each other against a plain background.
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Love and friendship

Naira pitches a new sport to her husband in this strange, sweet portrait of marriage

5 minutes

Woman holds a baby while standing on a stone spiral path in a forested area with trees and greenery in the background.
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Biography and memoir

As her world unravels, Pilar wonders at the ‘sacred geometry’ that gives it structure

20 minutes

Three motorcyclists are riding on an empty road winding through English moorland beneath a blue sky
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Stories and literature

Citizens

Devon, 1970s: I’m a rector’s son, hanging out with Boz the biker. My life is about to open up – what does it promise for him?

Tim Pears

Two dark haired twin girls in tartan dresses look through an unglazed window frame
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Metaphysics

Both one and yet distinct

Being a twin (as our author knows) cracks open our ideas of the perfectly bounded self and might liberate us all

Helena de Bres

A woman sits alone in a Parisian cafe with a glass of wine, while the neighbouring tables are full of socialising groups
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Love and friendship

Loved, yet lonely

You might have the unconditional love of family and friends and yet feel deep loneliness. Can philosophy explain why?

Kaitlyn Creasy

Woman holding a pregnancy test in a bathroom, looking at her reflection in the mirror with a thoughtful expression.
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Family life

On a whirlwind morning, a couple learns if they’re facing an unplanned pregnancy

7 minutes

A man with glasses and a beard, smiling and holding up a sketch of a person, seated outside near a brick wall and an open door.
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Love and friendship

When drawing your muse hundreds of times becomes an exercise in love

7 minutes

Two people on a beach watch the sunset over the water, framed by bicycle wheels in the foreground.
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Love and friendship

A decade after his wife was swept away in a tsunami, Yasuo still searches the sea

9 minutes

Cartoon of an adult and two children in a kitchen, standing near a fridge with a drawing and a stove with a boiling pot.
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Gender and identity

‘I didn’t fall in love with a couple of body pieces’ – on marriage and transition

3 minutes

Newborn squirrel, eyes closed, sleeping against a person’s neck, showcasing its tiny size and delicate features.
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Animals and humans

What happened when one woman raised an abandoned squirrel as her own

8 minutes

A close-up of two people snuggled together, their eyes closed in a tender moment. The image is slightly blurry.
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Mood and emotion

‘Let me dream you into my reality’: memories illuminate an unthinkable isolation

12 minutes

Bride and groom side by side in a vintage wedding ceremony, both with serious expressions, surrounded by attendees.
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Love and friendship

The right person

Contemporary wisdom says that happiness is the measure of a marriage. But is that a harmful way of judging relationships?

Joshua Coleman

Two people wearing helmets and high-visibility jackets riding a vehicle in a snowy environment, with headsets and microphones for communication.
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Love and friendship

Skiing blind is a challenge – but it helps to have a loved one to guide you

20 minutes

Victorian-era portrait of a man and woman; the woman holds a small framed photograph, in an ornate gold oval frame.
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Love and friendship

Tainted love

Love is both a wonderful thing and a cunning evolutionary trick to control us. A dangerous cocktail in the wrong hands

Anna Machin

A hand in a blue shirt draws a pencil portrait of a woman on white paper.
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Information and communication

From mental image to sketch – how memories and emotions conjure up a face

23 minutes

A couple sits on a bench at the beach, embracing, with their dog beneath them and the ocean in the background.
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History of ideas

The love story story

Neither psychology nor anthropology fully understand love: only history sees that it’s all about the time and the telling

Barbara H Rosenwein

Illustration of a man’s face flanked by four women’s faces above four hands set against a yellow background. The women have various skin tones and coloured hairstyles.
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Personality

Art students divulge (and animate) the dating pet peeves they find unforgivable

3 minutes

Collage with the Eiffel Tower, roses, a cherub, heart-shaped chocolate box, and vintage couple photo on a red and blue background.
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Mental health

When crushes become crushing – how to know if you’re in a ‘limerent episode’

4 minutes